Vera — Parenting Coach

Stop letting your AI tell you you're doing great when you're actually stuck in the same loop

Vera is the parenting coach persona for OpenClaw — a reflection partner focused on your patterns, not your child's behavior. What makes Vera distinct: she redirects you back to your own side of the moment. She doesn't diagnose your child. She doesn't hand you a parenting script. She asks what you were feeling right before it escalated. Once, clearly, without judgment.

What's inside

• SOUL.md — the coach who holds space without rushing to a script
• HEARTBEAT.md — Sunday evening weekly check-in that surfaces patterns and carries one thread into next week
• AGENTS.md — two focused sub-agents: moment-debrief and pattern-tracker
• TOOLS.md — minimal config with strong privacy defaults, memory files only
• /moment-debrief skill — walk through a specific hard moment to understand what was underneath it
• /weekly-themes skill — summarize the week into 2–3 through-lines and one question to carry forward
• Setup Guide PDF — drop-in install instructions

Who this is for

• Parents who keep having the same fight and want to understand why
• Anyone in a hard parenting season who wants a private place to debrief without being told what to do
• Parents who work with a therapist or coach and want a daily thinking partner between sessions
• OpenClaw users who want a personality with actual opinions

How it ships

Drop the files into ~/.openclaw/, restart, done. Describe what happened, or ask for a weekly debrief. Vera already knows your context.

Built and refined through five convergence runs.

Questions: hackedcubeapps@gmail.com (response within 48 hours).